Meaning of family
A family is defined as a group of people that consists of one or two parents and the children. The Parent and the members of the family. This type of family is Known as the Nuclear family we have another type of family called the Extended family. These types consist of one or two parents, their children, and close relations such as uncles, aunties, Nephews, and Cousins.
Family Name: This is a surname that is a name that shows which family one belongs to.
THE ROLE OF MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY
All members of the family have their role to play. The role of the husband’s and father is to love his wife, honor her and give her respect so that the joy of the Lord will be in her.
THE HUSBAND (father) is to love his wife, provide for his family and train the children in the fear of God i.e. be the pastor of his house.
THE WIFE:(Mother) is to submit to her husband, take care of the house and children and pray for her husband and children.
THE CHILDREN: The children are to obey their parents and assist in taking care of their younger ones.
Relationships within a family are complex and multifaceted. Family members are connected through blood ties, marriage, or adoption, and they play crucial roles in each other’s lives. Here are some common types of relationships within a family:
1. Parent-Child Relationship: This relationship exists between parents and their children. Parents provide love, care, guidance, and support to their children, while children rely on their parents for nurture, protection, and upbringing. This relationship evolves as children grow older and become more independent.
2. Sibling Relationship: Siblings are brothers and sisters who share at least one parent. Sibling relationships can vary greatly, but they often involve a mix of love, rivalry, companionship, and support. Siblings may have different personalities, interests, and perspectives, which can lead to both close bonds and conflicts.
3. Grandparent-Grandchild Relationship: Grandparents play a unique role in the family structure. They often offer wisdom, support, and a sense of continuity. Grandchildren may seek guidance and affection from their grandparents, and these relationships can be a source of comfort and stability.
4. Spousal Relationship: The spousal relationship exists between married or partnered individuals. This relationship is based on love, trust, and companionship. Spouses support each other emotionally, share responsibilities, and work together to navigate life’s challenges.
5. Extended Family Relationships: Extended family members, such as aunts, uncles, cousins, and in-laws, also contribute to the dynamics within a family. These relationships can be supportive, providing additional sources of love and guidance, or they may face occasional tensions and conflicts.
Building and maintaining positive family relationships requires open communication, empathy, respect, and understanding. It’s important to recognize that every family is unique, and the dynamics within each family can vary widely. Factors such as cultural background, values, and individual personalities can significantly influence family relationships. Ultimately, strong and healthy family relationships contribute to the overall well-being and happiness of its members.
Moral Lessons
If you want to have a good relationship with God, you must maintain a good relationship with man.
Assignment:
- What are the roles of individual members of the family?
- How can relationship in the family be improved upon?
See also:
ABRAHAM’S OBEDIENCE TO GOD’S CALL
THE CALL OF JOSHUA TO SERVICE (Josh 1:1-18)
THE CALL OF MOSES (Exo 3)
Joseph Responded to Call Service (Gen 31:1-36)
CALL TO SERVICE